Be your own Valentine, today and forever

So Valentine's Day is slowly creeping up on us and the time for hearts, roses and social media posts about love can make some of us feel a little inadequate or a little lonely.
I didn't want to write this blog post around a typical Valentine's Day because honestly, telling you what lingerie to buy for your partner isn't ever going to change. Just buy them something you think they will like and you can contact me here if you need some help - I love getting to know my customers so please don't be shy! You can find my favourite Valentine's gift ideas here.
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So I put out some feelers and the majority of you wanted to hear about self love because that's what we're all working towards in this day and age.
I'm not going to tell you that in order to love yourself you need to take time out, run a bubble bath and put on a face mask. Sure your muscles and skin will feel great but that isn't a long term solution to actually loving yourself. What you need in order to find self love is an attitude change, so here's a list of everything I've had to change about myself in the last 3 years and it has transformed my attitude towards myself.
Believe in yourself
Believing in your ability to do things means you can get them done. Take a risk, learn a new hobby or skill and push through until you are able to do it. Even if it's something you think you would never be able to do, just try. I believe in your ability to believe in yourself.
Have a high standard and don't lower it
This is a huge thing that more people need to implement into their lives. Have a high standard of how you are treated, who you surround yourself with and what you tolerate. Do not ever try and justify something if it goes below that standard. You must either find a solution to bring the standard back up and if that doesn't work, remove it from your life. Apply this to relationships, friendships, work, dating, everything. Your standard is what you believe you are worth and it's okay to believe that you are valuable.
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Channel positive energy
(Even if there isn't anything positive happening)
I believe that what you put out into the world you get back. If you are going through a tough time, which I know some of you will be, you may have just come out of a relationship and feeling a bit broken, but reflect on it in the best way you can. Take it as a lesson and believe that you loved and you lost to have something much more amazing further down the line. It will come, just trust the process of life.
When one door closes, another one opens
One of the most loving things you can do for yourself is forgive those who have hurt you. When you forgive someone you take away their power to continue hurting you. You deserve the peace and you deserve to be free of whatever they did.
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Stop comparing yourself
"A flower doesn't think of comparing itself to another flower, it just blooms".
So bloom away and cut out the comparison. Unfollow who you need to unfollow on social media to stop yourself feeling crappy. Instead, tell yourself every day something you love about yourself.
So that concludes my mentality changes to help you live a happy and self loving life.
Happy Valentines, Galentines and Ordinary day lovely people!


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  • Ali

    Such lovely words from a beautiful gal like you❤️Love the positivity and self-love that you promote on a daily basis

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